26-11-2010, 04:35
I would think the ladies are more likely to be concerned by issues other than your performance.
For example, are you clean and respectful?
Hygiene is of utmost importance, you're asking the lady to share her time and body with you in the most intimate of circumstances. There's an expression I've seen in many a parlour "the cleaner you are, the dirtier we get"! Irrespective of whether or not you've had a shower before you saw her, ask to have one and accept if it's offered. She doesn't know whether or not you've showered beforehand and at least your actions show that you care about her feelings.
Treat her with respect and consideration. The fact that you're paying for her to have sex with you, doesn't give you the right to treat her as a piece of meat or as your plaything irrespective of her feelings.
I get a tremendous amount of pleasure giving oral and doing G spot stimulation and certainly don't regard sex as a one-way street. I want it to be a fun time for the lady, as well as an enjoyable time for me - and surprise, surprise, the two go hand in glove. I ask if there's anything SHE likes especially.
I work on the principle of treating others the way I'd like to be treated myself and respect and consideration go a long way in my book. Without blowing my trumpet unduly, it's lovely when I hear a WG/escort refer to me to a third party in complimentary terms "what a lovely gentleman", etc. And guess what? They're genuinely pleased to see me when I go back.
I have performance issues as a result of diabetes and other complaints and the medication I'm on. The more professional escorts will have experience of seeing clients with these problems and will do their damnedest to make sure you have as good a time as possible. I can't comment on pornstar escorts as, up to now, I've not seen one yet, but in the last year, I've seen over 30 ladies and the vast majority of them (especially the more mature ones) were simply lovely ladies, who were such good fun and wanted to give me a good time. The fact that I've not always been able to cum or have successful penetrative sex, was not turned into an issue of a failure of my performance. More, it was a case of what could they do to help me make our hour a memorable time together. And if we "click", we can have a laugh and that too gets you remembered.
For example, are you clean and respectful?
Hygiene is of utmost importance, you're asking the lady to share her time and body with you in the most intimate of circumstances. There's an expression I've seen in many a parlour "the cleaner you are, the dirtier we get"! Irrespective of whether or not you've had a shower before you saw her, ask to have one and accept if it's offered. She doesn't know whether or not you've showered beforehand and at least your actions show that you care about her feelings.
Treat her with respect and consideration. The fact that you're paying for her to have sex with you, doesn't give you the right to treat her as a piece of meat or as your plaything irrespective of her feelings.
I get a tremendous amount of pleasure giving oral and doing G spot stimulation and certainly don't regard sex as a one-way street. I want it to be a fun time for the lady, as well as an enjoyable time for me - and surprise, surprise, the two go hand in glove. I ask if there's anything SHE likes especially.
I work on the principle of treating others the way I'd like to be treated myself and respect and consideration go a long way in my book. Without blowing my trumpet unduly, it's lovely when I hear a WG/escort refer to me to a third party in complimentary terms "what a lovely gentleman", etc. And guess what? They're genuinely pleased to see me when I go back.
I have performance issues as a result of diabetes and other complaints and the medication I'm on. The more professional escorts will have experience of seeing clients with these problems and will do their damnedest to make sure you have as good a time as possible. I can't comment on pornstar escorts as, up to now, I've not seen one yet, but in the last year, I've seen over 30 ladies and the vast majority of them (especially the more mature ones) were simply lovely ladies, who were such good fun and wanted to give me a good time. The fact that I've not always been able to cum or have successful penetrative sex, was not turned into an issue of a failure of my performance. More, it was a case of what could they do to help me make our hour a memorable time together. And if we "click", we can have a laugh and that too gets you remembered.
