Babe wellbeing

Hey all,

I've been thinking about this recently after seeing a host of posts on both here, social media and the chat boxes.

Some elements of the "babeshow fandom" need to consider their words and actions around the babes.
I've seen the thread about obsessive fans and it makes sense but this is something different.

Of course the models enter this industry with a degree of confidence in their bodies and have the character to create an engaging on screen persona but, it doesn't mean they are 24hr sex obsessed people.

Some of the comments aimed at them for how they look, their performance, or what they wear would be seen as harassment in any other industry.

I think people seem to forget that these are normal people who also have genuine concerns and feelings.

Basically....long story short, respect the babes, they'll respect you back and maybe you'll get the show you want. And if you don't, don't kick off about it, each presenter has their own comfort level and areas of interest.

It's always been a problem, to varying degrees of course. As shit as it is, models seem to need to develop thick skin, especially now on (anti)social media, it shouldn't have to be the case, as respecting those around you, whether you know them or not is how adults should operate. Don't being a cunt online should be standard.

We've amended our rules over the years to try to keep on top of the worst of the stuff that gets posted. For the most part, what you see here is constructive criticism and not personal, but sometimes the lines blur, and sometimes people are dickheads for the sake of it. We have the report button for this, if we don't see it, we expect our members, our community to give us a heads up, so we can look at a post and see if it goes too far.

I think the most common problem we've seen (as a forum/community) is the fact people see the channels as more than what they are, they are wank channels, their purpose is to make money and for the caller to get off to what's being said and shown. The presenters aren't your friends, they may care about regular callers if they are that way inclined, but it is a job, friendly doesn't mean friend. It's meant to be fantasy, fun, not serious.
In the same breath, if an unhealthy attachment is formed and the person is rinsed, they have nobody else to blame but themselves.

Anyone who can't be respectful to a woman online, needs to step back and think about what reaction those words would get if said face to face. Too many people think that just because it's said here or on social media, that it's not going to be seen, well it can be and if you intend to just ruin a day for fun, then you need to get a life.
If people only post negative, insulting comments here, they won't last long, social media however (especially now) really doesn't moderate anything, it's much worse than it has been and is only getting worse.

As I've got older, I have less time for petty nonsense, we all make mistakes, we all say things that can be taken out of context or may cause offense unintentionally, but the intentional stuff I have no time for. People need to moderate their words so we don't have to, opinions are opinions, but it doesn't mean you say whatever you like.

I'm bound to say that whilst Rammy gets held up as an exemplar of one-dimensional positivity, I'd think any babes reading such comments would take it at face value and not get carried away.

Whereas the vitriol often offered should be taken equally unseriously, to the point of wondering at the mentality of what people feel they achieve by posting it. I mean, for example, what are you/they supposed to feel from someone who appears to be a moonlighting management consultant, incessantly judging by degrees of supposed improvement (!)

I should also add, this industry is one of quite high pressure and expectation for the presenters. There is a kind of level they are held to by fans.
The pressure to look good, hit targets, stay in character and remain "horny" must take it's toll.

That's why I think they should be given a fair bit of grace by punters as this is after all a fantasy and sometimes the illusion of a fantasy can slip a little.

Somewhere there's a Mirror Universe version of this forum where "babes" discuss their favourite (and not so favourite) callers. If one of them starts a thread titled "Caller Wellbeing" I'm pretty sure it won't get the sort of sympathetic response that this one has

Haha! Imagine!
Yeah whilst I started this thread with the idea that a little kindness goes a long way and some babes may need a little support every now and then, there are also plenty who totally rinse guys and exploit them.

I can fully imagine, large numbers do not care one bit for "fans" but others fully immerse themselves in wanting to create a great experience for those who like them