15-10-2014, 04:58
Couldn't agree more. Where is the fun in rushing straight into it I say. Half the fun is in letting the chat build up, letting it build and build to where you can't take it no more
(14-10-2014 02:08 )JuanKerr Wrote: [ -> ]I have absolutely no sympathy for anyone who calls these shows and gets ripped off. You must have more money than sense.
How many people have to get ripped off by the sex industry before you realise it's one giant scam??
(19-10-2014 11:19 )Raider007 Wrote: [ -> ]The trick is to always tell yourself THESE GIRLS ARE DOING A JOB.Hey, I make no bones about the fact that I call the channels from time to time -- by day and by night. But for peace of mind and bank account, I think these are a few of healthy rules to live by:
(19-10-2014 18:20 )Goodfella3041 Wrote: [ -> ]Hey, I make no bones about the fact that I call the channels from time to time -- by day and by night. But for peace of mind and bank account, I think these are a few of healthy rules to live by:
(1) When a girl recognizes you by name and/or by voice, then you have probably been calling too much.
(2) If she can pick up seamlessly from where your last conversation left off (and that was anywhere other than in the aftermath of a big 'finish'), then you have probably been calling too much.
(3) If the girl at any point in her set gets on the mic and asks for you personally and why you haven't called her yet ... that is NOT a sign that you have formed some sort of bond or connection or rapport with her. It is a big bold sign in flashing neon lights that you are definitely, DEFINITELY calling too much. That is time for an intervention.
(19-10-2014 18:20 )Goodfella3041 Wrote: [ -> ](19-10-2014 11:19 )Raider007 Wrote: [ -> ]The trick is to always tell yourself THESE GIRLS ARE DOING A JOB.Hey, I make no bones about the fact that I call the channels from time to time -- by day and by night. But for peace of mind and bank account, I think these are a few of healthy rules to live by:
(1) When a girl recognizes you by name and/or by voice, then you have probably been calling too much.
(2) If she can pick up seamlessly from where your last conversation left off (and that was anywhere other than in the aftermath of a big 'finish'), then you have probably been calling too much.
(3) If the girl at any point in her set gets on the mic and asks for you personally and why you haven't called her yet ... that is NOT a sign that you have formed some sort of bond or connection or rapport with her. It is a big bold sign in flashing neon lights that you are definitely, DEFINITELY calling too much. That is time for an intervention.
(19-10-2014 11:19 )Raider007 Wrote: [ -> ]But having said that the shows fill a need for a lot of guys.
The trick is to always tell yourself THESE GIRLS ARE DOING A JOB.
Once she's finished being your best mate / girlfriend for 20 mins, she is the next callers best mate / girlfriend.
If you call, have a convo that fills your need, finish and get on with your day. That's great. Money, if not well spent, then satisfactorily (is that a word?)