[split] Kerrie Lee - Babestation - Chat & Discussion

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Wrong, wrong, wrong. The issue is not being critical of a babe, that’s ok, the issue is Kerrie-Lee’s mental health being questioned, being labelled flakey etc & forum members putting the boot in & also questioning the psychology of other forum members. All this is not ok & people doing it need to stop their sad & pathetic agenda against Kerrie-Lee along with stopping questioning the psychology of other forum members like me

You wouldn’t like your mental state & mental health being questioned, so why regularly question Kerrie-Lee’s mental state & mental health & even question the psychological state of other forum members.

(03-02-2019 12:45 )Rammyrascal Wrote:  ^^
Wrong, wrong, wrong. The issue is not being critical of a babe, that’s ok, the issue is Kerrie-Lee’s mental health being questioned, being labelled flakey etc & forum members putting the boot in & also questioning the psychology of other forum members. All this is not ok & people doing it need to stop their sad & pathetic agenda against Kerrie-Lee along with stopping questioning the psychology of other forum members like me

You wouldn’t like your mental state & mental health being questioned, so why regularly question Kerrie-Lee’s mental state & mental health & even question the psychological state of other forum members.

Never mentioned anything about this person's mental health and I think its absolutely appalling that you would go there especially when you do not know her on a personal level or are privy to such information at a professional level. That is not something that should be discussed or eluded to on a forum like this even if it is to defend someone.

My opinion on this has always been that I think she is unreliable due to being unprofessional and selfish, these are things you can be without having an underlying health problem.

Posted this the day after "having trouble" getting a flight home.

(03-02-2019 14:13 )Sayitaintso53 Wrote:  Never mentioned anything about this person's mental health and I think its absolutely appalling that you would go there especially when you do not know her on a personal level or are privy to such information at a professional level. That is not something that should be discussed or eluded to on a forum like this even if it is to defend someone.

My opinion on this has always been that I think she is unreliable due to being unprofessional and selfish, these are things you can be without having an underlying health problem.

Posted this the day after "having trouble" getting a flight home.

If I’m appalling for what I’ve said given i “don’t know her on a personal level or are privy to such info at a professional level”, then SO ARE YOU for calling her flaky, selfish & unprofessional when you don’t know her on a personal level or privy to such information also

By the way I’m not being appalling as when a person like Kerrie-Lee is described as flaky, their mental state is being at best questioned & at worse described as not in a good way mentally in my opinion, so for me you are questioning Kerrie-Lee’s mental state at best with your posts regularly putting the boot in

Plus as you say, I’m just stating my opinion.

(03-02-2019 16:33 )Rammyrascal Wrote:  If I’m appalling for what I’ve said given i “don’t know her on a personal level or are privy to such info at a professional level”, then SO ARE YOU for calling her flaky, selfish & unprofessional when you don’t know her on a personal level or privy to such information also

By the way I’m not being appalling as when a person like Kerrie-Lee is described as flaky, their mental state is being at best questioned & at worse described as not in a good way mentally in my opinion, so for me you are questioning Kerrie-Lee’s mental state at best with your posts regularly putting the boot in

Plus as you say, I’m just stating my opinion.

Nope you are the only one that has mentioned mental state and again I think its wrong that you would even bring it up in conversation. It is possible to be unprofessional and unreliable without having any underlying issue's which you seem to be eluding to.

Do you think everybody that has flunked a college exam or project has something wrong with them? Do you think the member of staff that has been warned by the boss for being late a few times has something wrong with them?

My observations and comments are purely on what I have seen and not seen in relation to her social media activity and not showing up for work. The only thing I am calling into question is her work ethic and professionalism, nothing else. You are bringing in questionable what if's to the conversation and the what if's you are eluding to are appalling. You should never question or cause others to bring into question the state of another person's health mental or otherwise even if your intentions in your own mind are good, its not your place to do it.

It is a matter of opinion as I have said time and time again and I will continue to voice mine. You seem to be triggered by this one again and again so I would say you should consider pausing for a few moments and taking a few deep breaths.

I am fairly new to this forum/website in terms of posting. I joined years ago but was not really active.

Sorry to name drop but Rammyrascal on more than one occasion in recent posts has suggested that a performer might be suffering from something which relates to a mental health issue.


I was just wondering if the moderators and/or maybe some of the more active members if they see this could advise on the matter, is it right for posters to bring up issues such as mental health? I know this is an adult forum so I am assuming its ok to discuss anything as long as its not illegal activity, but I was hoping to get clarification on the matter so I don't cross any lines in future.

If there are any John Bercow's among us to provide guidance that would be appreciated

(03-02-2019 18:41 )k-dog2 Wrote:  I am fairly new to this forum/website in terms of posting. I joined years ago but was not really active.

Sorry to name drop but Rammyrascal on more than one occasion in recent posts has suggested that a performer might be suffering from something which relates to a mental health issue.


I was just wondering if the moderators and/or maybe some of the more active members if they see this could advise on the matter, is it right for posters to bring up issues such as mental health? I know this is an adult forum so I am assuming its ok to discuss anything as long as its not illegal activity, but I was hoping to get clarification on the matter so I don't cross any lines in future.

If there are any John Bercow's among us to provide guidance that would be appreciated

I don't see any adverse motives in the questions that have been raised about her mental health. On the benevolent side, it could be seen as trying to make excuses for her rather than to issue judgments on her work-ethic and professionalism. Such judgments might be ill-informed if indeed she is, perhaps, bipolar or subject to depression. Are we "entitled" to speculate on her mental health? It depends on how you view the activity on forums. What people say here seems to have little or no consequences nor effect on what happens on the babe channels. Apart from the grumblings of the techno-nerds. it's mostly chat and banter, usually good humoured.

^^ this, this is a very well considered response.
People should be able to voice there opinion and others can disagree with it.
But there is no need for the aggressive responses from people (one in particular) who think they are standing up for a person that probably doesn't even know this forum exists.
I called into question her professionalism and provided reasons behind why I think that. Rammy disagreed and has done nothing to try convince me otherwise except to elude to something he knows nothing about.

I am not claiming to know the first thing about this performer, I am just commenting on what I see and the impression that gives me.

(03-02-2019 19:49 )skully Wrote:  I will be going through recent posts shortly.

Well as previous mental health related posts were rightly kicked into the weeds and only 1 forum member has seen fit to dredge it up again recently, you've got a fairly easy job on your hands

(03-02-2019 17:56 )Sayitaintso53 Wrote:  

(03-02-2019 16:33 )Rammyrascal Wrote:  If I’m appalling for what I’ve said given i “don’t know her on a personal level or are privy to such info at a professional level”, then SO ARE YOU for calling her flaky, selfish & unprofessional when you don’t know her on a personal level or privy to such information also

By the way I’m not being appalling as when a person like Kerrie-Lee is described as flaky, their mental state is being at best questioned & at worse described as not in a good way mentally in my opinion, so for me you are questioning Kerrie-Lee’s mental state at best with your posts regularly putting the boot in

Plus as you say, I’m just stating my opinion.

Nope you are the only one that has mentioned mental state and again I think its wrong that you would even bring it up in conversation. It is possible to be unprofessional and unreliable without having any underlying issue's which you seem to be eluding to.

Do you think everybody that has flunked a college exam or project has something wrong with them? Do you think the member of staff that has been warned by the boss for being late a few times has something wrong with them?

My observations and comments are purely on what I have seen and not seen in relation to her social media activity and not showing up for work. The only thing I am calling into question is her work ethic and professionalism, nothing else. You are bringing in questionable what if's to the conversation and the what if's you are eluding to are appalling. You should never question or cause others to bring into question the state of another person's health mental or otherwise even if your intentions in your own mind are good, its not your place to do it.

It is a matter of opinion as I have said time and time again and I will continue to voice mine. You seem to be triggered by this one again and again so I would say you should consider pausing for a few moments and taking a few deep breaths.

Nope I won’t be lectured & patronised by you on how to post on this forum

(03-02-2019 18:00 )Sayitaintso53 Wrote:  

(03-02-2019 17:13 )Wardjackson Wrote:  As I see it, Kerrie Lee is a self-employed professional model. If she is offered work, she either takes it or turns it down. Her choice. If, having accepted work, she changes her mind,, so be it. Her choice again. Potential employers can decide if this makes her a liability and therefore whether or not to offer her more work. Their choice. If she works, we have our TV sets, laptops, phones etc, and can watch if we wish, call if we wish, or spend our time doing something else. Our choice.

Nobody here has any obligation to anyone else. Everyone does what they want to do, because it is what they want to do. Isn’t that all there is to it? No need to get angry with each other!

Agreed.

I thought this was a forum to discuss performers and the studio's.

I have often said I am perplexed that BS keep giving her opportunities to come back given her track record which I think is a fair thing to comment about. Some people agree with that point of view and some people don't and that is fine, however there are a few that get quiet aggressive in their disagreement and there is no need for it really.

Utter nonsense to say Ive got quite aggressive on this & no need for all these subtle digs at me whatsoever in your posts. I’ve not done the same to you